Hills like White Elephants

In the story “Hills Like White Elephants” the man and girl are arguing the entire time, but what are they arguing about. The story makes me think that they are planning to do something illegal, because the man keeps saying to the girl that “you don’t have to do anything that you don’t want to do.” If they are planning something illegal why would they be arguing about it so loud about it without directly saying what it is there doing, that could be that part of there plan is to get caught. The man also seems like he needs to have control of the girl and have her do what he wants her to do, but at the same time he seems to care about her enough to let her do what she wants to do. Also when it comes to the man trying to control her I think that the reason that they seem to butt-heads so much is because she is so independent and that scares the man, because he thinks that she is going to leave even thought she made it clear that she will not leave and that she wants to be with